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The Sun in Synastry

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Sun in harmonious aspect (conjunction, sextile, trine) to another person’s Sun

This is a very helpful aspect in synastry. If your Sun is in harmonious aspect to another person’s Sun, it indicates mutual understanding of each other’s overall personality. You don’t have to explain yourselves to one another; you just “get” each other. Fire and Air signs are in harmonious aspects to one another, and Water and Earth signs are in positive aspect to one another. Air feeds fire, and Water and Earth are a fertile mix. If your Suns are in the same element, your overall characteristics are very similar in important ways, making it easy to appreciate and understand each other’s needs. On the downside, familiarity breeds contempt; your partner may exhibit qualities you like least about yourself, and vice-versa. This is especially applicable to the conjunction. Nevertheless, this is a great aspect for friendship, as well as for a romantic relationship.

Sun opposite Sun:

Ever hear the phrase, “opposites attract”? This is an intriguing aspect. You have many differences, but at the same time, you balance each other out. Indeed, your personalities are complementary to one another. At the same time, there is a fundamental difference in your temperaments, which can lead to conflict. The Sun is a masculine planet, so beware of ego clashes!

Sun square Sun

If your Suns are square, it means they share the same modality (i.e. Geminis and Virgos are both mutable, Capricorns and Libras are both cardinal, etc..).  This means you handle life’s problems in a similar way. However, the square also indicates you differ in temperament and life goals, which can lead to conflict. This aspect indicates a lack of understanding of each other’s personalities. If you are both mutable, your changeable and adaptable natures may cause you to drift apart; if you are both Cardinal, you are both dynamic, action-oriented, which can give rise to competitiveness; If you are both Fixed, the both of you are stubborn, loyal, and attached, so it may be easy to feel “stuck” with each other.

Sun conjunct, sextile or trine the other person’s Moon

This is one of the strongest aspects two people can have in synastry. This is especially powerful if the woman is the Moon person, and the man is the Sun person. This is because in a Sun-Moon combo in synastry, the Moon person tends to be the more dependent, supportive person, while the Sun leads the relationship, and some men feel uncomfortable in the “submissive” role. Either way, this is a strong indicator of overall compatibility. There is a feeling that you can rely on one another. This aspect is often found in the synastry charts of married couples.

Sun opposite Moon

This is a binding aspect to be found between lovers. With this aspect, a mutual attraction is present. However, the Moon person may find the Sun person insensitive and overbearing, while the Sun person may find the Moon person overly dependent and overly sensitive. The Moon person may feel the Sun person stomps all over their feelings, and the Sun person may not even be aware of this! Regardless, oppositions in synastry are complementary.

Sun square Moon

This aspect is more problematic than the opposition. The Moon person may find the Sun person overly rational, dictatorial, and selfish, while the Sun person may find the Moon person overly sensitive and emotional. Attraction to one another is present, but it is not without tension and competitiveness. They find it hard to support one another, because there is a basic misunderstanding over what each person needs.

Sun conjunct, sextile, or trine Mercury

Mercury synastry aspects are undervalued in astrology, in my opinion. What kind of relationship can you have, if you can’t even talk to one another. Sun-Mercury aspects in synastry are thus very important. In harmonious aspect, Sun-Mercury aspects stimulate communication between partners. They like to speak to one another, and have similar intellectual interests. This isn’t an indicator of a wild, passionate romance, but having good communication with your mate is one of the most important aspects of a successful relationships.

Sun opposite Mercury

This aspect indicates a difference of opinions and perspectives on intellectual issues. This aspect indicates lively mental exchanges and interesting conversations.

Sun square Mercury

With this aspect, there comes a tendency to criticize each other’s viewpoints. The Sun person may feel sensitive to Mercury’s criticism, and Mercury may find the Sun person defensive. It’s hard to “get” what the other is saying with this aspect. With a little patience and understanding, you can learn a lot from one another.

Sun conjunct, sextile, or trine the other person’s Venus

This is a very positive aspect to find in synastry. The Venus finds the Sun person attractive, and the Sun person feels loved and adored around the Venus person. Indeed, being around the Venus person gives the Sun person an ego boost! The Venus person instinctively knows how to love the Sun person. This isn’t an indicator of sexual attraction, but rather one of pure love and affection. This is a wonderful aspect to find in friendships, as well.

Sun opposite Venus

This aspect is commonly found in long-term relationships. With this aspect, you like spending time with each other and socializing together. This aspect indicates a deep friendship based on mutual interests. However, the Venus person might feel underappreciated in her efforts to please the Sun person, while the Sun person may find the Venus person superficial and self-indulgent.

Sun square Venus

This aspect definitely produces mutual attraction, but can cause problems in terms of understanding each other’s values. The Venus person may feel the Sun person doesn’t appreciate her efforts to please him, and the Sun person may find the Venus person superficial. This aspect can indicate a real lack of caring and consideration for one another, especially on the part of the Venus person.

 

Sun conjunct, sextile, or trine Mars

This is a great aspect, as it indicates sexual attraction to one another, especially on the part of the Mars person. You energize one another, and respect each other’s individuality. This aspect also indicates a healthy competitiveness between the two of you.

Sun opposite Mars

This is an indicator of strong sexual attraction! Hot, hot, hot! Since Sun and Mars are both masculine planets, it can cause ego clashes, as well. You may try to dominate the other because of this. This aspect is an indicator of conflict and power struggles.

Sun square Mars

This aspect often produces conflict, and even violence, but is an indicator of attraction at the same time. Competitiveness and ego clashes characterize this aspect. You are likely to react to each other in an impulsive manner. It’s likely that you rub each other the wrong way, and know how to get under each other’s skin. You always feel the need to explain your actions to one another, which can be quite draining.

Sun conjunct, sextile or trine Jupiter

This aspect injects your relationship with enthusiasm, optimism, and trust. The Jupiter fosters the Sun person’s self-confidence. Jupiter is generous and trusting towards the Sun person, and the Sun person vitalizes the Jupiter person. You two make wonderful travel companions. You desire to make each other happy, and this will last throughout your relationship.

Sun opposite or square Jupiter

While this aspect indicates mutual generosity and trust, you may tend to overindulge the other. You have a strong desire to make each other happy, but may tend to expect too much from the partnership, which can lead to disappointment. Jupiter has the natural ability to lift up the Sun person’s spirits. Beware of the danger of overspending with one another.

Sun conjunct Saturn

This is a binding connection. The Saturn person stabilizes the Sun person, and the couple truly feels they can depend on one another. You take responsibilities to one another seriously, which is conducive to any successful long-term relationship. However, the Saturn person may be somewhat of a wet blanket to the Sun person. This is because the Sun person brings out the Saturn’s person’s insecurities. Fearing the Sun person’s withdrawal of interest, the Saturn person may criticize and judge the Sun person. Due to this criticism, the Sun person’s self-confidence and enthusiasm may decrease. It is easy for the couple to feel stifled and restricted by the relationship.

Sun sextile or trine Saturn

This is a very helpful aspect in synastry. Saturn feels dedicated and responsible towards the Sun person, and the Sun is supportive of the Saturn person. This aspect indicates the two of you desire to build a lasting relationship together, full of commitment and dedication. In a marriage, you will be dedicated and helpful to one another.

Sun opposite or square Saturn

This is a very difficult aspect to find in synastry, yet it is commonly found in the synastry charts of married couples! Like the conjunction, this aspect indicates the tendency for the Saturn to criticize and nag the Sun person. The Sun person feels blocked and discouraged by the Saturn person. It is as if whatever the Sun person does, it is not good enough for the Saturn person. Still, the feeling of responsibility and duty to one another is present.

Sun conjunct Uranus

 

This is an electrifying, though unstable aspect. The Sun person finds the Uranus person exciting and unique, yet at the same time unstable and non-committal. This relationship is bound to be spontaneous, but the ability to truly count on one another is tarnished with this aspect. You may have met each other suddenly, and fallen for each other instantly, but maintaining this level of excitement may be the key to making this relationship work. The Uranus person is likely to feel trapped by the Sun person when the relationship gets too routine and stable.

Sun sextile or trine Uranus

 

This is a positive aspect to find in a synastry chart. You encourage each other’s freedom and independence. Electricity and spontaneity characterize this relationship, but not in an upsetting way like in the case of the conjunction, opposition, or square. This relationship is not suffocating, but not radically unstable, either. A strong attraction to each other is present, especially on the part of the Sun person.

Sun square or opposite Uranus

This is an unstable aspect, and is not conducive to long-term relationships. The relationship most likely started quickly, full of excitement and mutual attraction. However, over time, the Uranus person is likely to feel stifled or “trapped” by the Sun person, and the Sun person is likely to find the Uranus person unpredictable and unstable. The couple may be separated at key moments, and may not be able to truly rely on one another in the long-term.

Sun conjunct Neptune

This is a tricky aspect. While this aspect indicates a strong spiritual connection, it can also lead to deception and dishonesty. The Sun person is likely to see the Neptune person as a soul mate, but this idea may not be based on reality. The Sun person may love the Neptune person for who he thinks she is, rather than who she actually is. Neptune may play along in order to appease the Sun person. This aspect can also indicate a ‘victim-savior’ relationship, in which one depends strongly on the other for support and guidance.

Sun sextile or trine Neptune

This aspect indicates the couple shares a romantic, spiritual bond. You easily forgive each other, and are conscious of each other’s needs. Love easily flows between the two of you. There is a feeling that you have found your soul mate, as you are attuned to each other’s feelings.

Sun square or opposite Neptune

This aspect can indicate delusion and deception. The Sun person may believe he has found his soul mate in the Neptune person, and the Neptune person may play into this role in order to please the Sun person. The Neptune may end up promising more than they can deliver, which can eventually lead to disappointment on the part of the Sun person. Misunderstandings are likely when Neptune is involved in synastry. It is important that you are clear with one another about what you expect out of the relationship.

Sun conjunct Pluto

Pluto is the planet of “no Bullshit”, so there is nothing superficial about this union! Like a moth to a flame, the Sun person is drawn to the Pluto person. The Sun person is likely to be mesmerized and fascinated to the Pluto.  The Pluto usually has the upper hand in the relationship, as the Sun person is enthralled, and even obsessed, with the Pluto person. The Sun person stimulates Pluto’s jealousy and possessiveness. The fear of losing one another is present, as is the desire to know each other’s deepest secrets. This is an indicator of a deep attraction and a powerful sexual connection.

Sun sextile or trine Pluto

This aspect indicates mutual fascination, and the desire to delve into the depths of each other’s minds. This aspect is a lot like the conjunction, except it is less dramatic.

Sun opposite or square Pluto

The two of you have a profound, transformative effect on each other. You experience emotions you never even knew you had as a result of this relationship. This is an indicator of a love-hate relationship. This relationship is characterized by power struggles, as the two of you wish to dominate the other. You are compelled to find out every detail about each other’s lives, and this desire often leads to unhealthy obsession and possessiveness. If you two break up, it will be very difficult to remain friends.

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Ascendant through the Signs

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Your Ascendant, also known as your Rising Sign, is the sign that was rising on the eastern horizon at the time you were born. The Ascendant is specific to the time and place the person was born. Your Ascendant is just as important as your Sun and Moon signs because all the aspects in the chart are filtered through this sign.

The Ascendant is your public persona, the Mask you wear when you first meet people; it’s the “first impression” you give to those around you. Ever been told, “Wow, I thought you were so shy/serious/emotional/optimistic/detached when we first met, but you’re not like that at all!”, or something along those lines? This is often the case when the Sun and Moon signs are in different signs than your Ascendant. The Ascendant also describes your physical characteristics, style, and mannerisms.

  • Fire Ascendants are optimistic, enthusiastic and friendly.
  • Earth Ascendants are practical, serious, and shy.
  • Air Ascendants are intellectual, communicative, and independent.
  • Water Ascendants are emotional, intuitive, and self-protective.

The Descendant is located exactly opposite your Ascendant. For example, if my Ascendant is at 16 degrees Virgo, my Descendant is at 16 degrees Pisces. The Descendant describes what kind of partner we attract.

 

Ascendant in Aries:

You are decisive and quick to the point. You have a quick temper that dies down easily, and you don’t hold grudges. You have a competitive edge to you, and love to be active. You are very independent and self-reliant. You are honest, and make a great leader. You may appear impatient and rude to others, even if you’re not like that on the inside. You can be quite charming to the opposite sex, and you enjoy the chase. You may also appear selfish to others, because you appear to be focused on yourself and your own goals. You are full of energy, and love participating in sports and competition. You are also popular and well-liked.

With Libra on the Descendant, you attract refined, diplomatic mates. The people you attract are generally intellectual and social. They tend to be partnership oriented, and think about “we”, instead of “me”.

Aries risings are generally athletic-looking.

Ascendant in Taurus:

You appear steady, responsible, and stubborn. You have a strong presence, and are very patient. You are likely to be set in your ways, careful, and practical. You love the good things in life, and can be quite self-indulgent. Material possessions are important to you, so you might have the reputation of being a bit materialistic. You are usually well dressed, and love good food and wine. You may treat your partner as if he or she is your personal property, and demand loyalty from your loved ones and friends. You are very sensual and passionate, especially once you’re in a committed relationship. People find you soothing and attractive. Ruled by Venus, most of you are well-mannered.

With Scorpio on the 7th house cusp, you attract loyal, intense partners. You tend to attract partners who are magnetic, passionate, and powerful. Your partner may be very possessive of you, and you of them.

Ascendant in Gemini

You appear restless, impatient, and always on the go. You are chatty, and have a great way with words. You appear unemotional and detached, yet friendly and curious. You tend to analyze everything around you, and you have strong powers of perception. People find you witty and charming. Your attention span is short, and you tend to bore easily. You have the uncanny ability to know what people want to hear. You are a great multitasker, and may have talents in the fields of writing, sales, or teaching. You are a social butterfly with a wide social circle. You don’t let people close to you easily, as you enjoy your space and freedom. You expect space from your partners, and give them the same. You are an excellent debater, and often talk with your hands. You love to be on the go. You are a fast walker.

With Sagittarius on the cusp of the 7th, you might attract people from different cultural, religious, or ethnic backgrounds. They are usually well-educated, talkative, honest, and idealistic. Spirituality is an important part of your relationships.

In keeping with Gemini’s dual nature, Gemini Ascendants vary in appearance. They can be short or tall, and are often thin, wiry, and flexible. You talk with your hands and move quickly. You love sports.

Cancer Ascendant:

You appear gentle, sensitive, and shy in new situations. You take a bit of time to warm up to people at first. You are very caring and sweet, but can be quite moody and insecure when you withdraw into yourself. In your relationships, you seek stability and constancy. You don’t do well in casual relationships, as they threaten your sense of security, and prefer relationship boundaries to be set out in the beginning. You are a great listener, and are sympathetic to the plight of others. You might be a “homebody”, and need a secure home base you can come home to at night. You have a close relationship with your family, particularly your mother. You are naturally nurturing and mothering, regardless of your sex. You like helping people improve themselves.

With Capricorn on your 7th house cusp, you might attract partners who are much older or much younger than you. Partners are often ambitious, conventional and traditional, as well as responsible and loyal. They may not be especially emotionally demonstrative, but rather cool and practical.

Leo Rising:

You have a personal magnetism that makes you stand out from the crowd. You are charismatic and you are a natural leader. You might appear bossy, so you make a great organizer or supervisor. You are enthusiastic about new projects, and make a great salesperson. You are physically demonstrative, and like drama. In fact, you often feel you are “on stage”, wherever you are. Your appearance is important to you, so you are fashionable and trendy. You are quite opinionated and stubborn, and have great stamina. You might appear quite egotistical and self-absorbed to others, and dislike taking advice from people. Either way, you definitely exude confidence and dignity. In love, you are faithful and romantic, but need a lot of attention from your partner. You are impulsive and tend to take risks.

With Aquarius on the cusp of the 7th house, you might attract unconventional, intellectual, independent, eccentric partners. Your partners are unique, which grabs your attention. Your relationships are generally non-traditional, and preserve each person’s sense of independence. However, as both signs are fixed, the partnership has the potential to be long-lasting.

 

Ascendant in Virgo:

You present yourself as neat, tidy, and practical. Individuals with this Ascendant often have a highly-developed sense of smell. You are intelligent and reserved, and can be shy when meeting new people. It is easy for you to find flaws in your environment, as well as in the people around you. You are very body-aware, which makes you very alert to your health. As a result, you might be a picky eater since you are so careful about what you put in your body. You tend to worry a lot, and have nervous tension. You have excellent detail orientation, and have a great work ethic. You go out of your way to help your friends. You are very analytical and critical of others, which can cause upsets among your peers. You are adaptable to changing circumstances. You are not fond of PDAs, but are affectionate in private. You might like gossip, and have the ability to absorb a large amount of information. You are dependable, and would do well in the medical field. You dislike crudeness and crassness, and dislike undependable people. You need to keep busy for your own well-being; being idle drives you crazy!

With Pisces on your Descendant, you tend to attract very sensitive people, or people who need help. You might attract dreamy, unrealistic, artist-types with whom you share a spiritual connection.

Libra Ascendant:

You are attractive, charming, and friendly. You don’t like being alone, and feel the best when you are in a relationship. You seek harmony, peace, and cooperation in your immediate environment. You are very persuasive, and would make a great mediator or lawyer. You enjoy art, literature, and music. You are friendly, yet emotionally detached and logical. You have well-developed social graces, but can come off as superficial to some. You are difficult to say “no” to. On the downside, you may be vain and obsessed with youth. You are very indecisive, but are skilled at getting your own way. You have a wide social circle, and might pick friends based on how they make you “look”. You tend to “mirror” people; you will mimic other people’s words or actions, which reflects others back at themselves.

You always look good. You have a great fashion sense, and know what colors and hair styles look best on you. Libra Risings usually have great figures, symmetrical faces, and a round rear-end (even the men!).

With Aries on the Descendant, the partners you attract might be impulsive, competitive and active. You are likely to be physically active with one another. You might argue a lot with your partner.

Ascendant in Scorpio:

You have tremendous presence due to your intensity and fearlessness. You tend to get strong reactions from others on account of this. People might find you very intimidating. You protect your privacy at any costs, and have a need to control your surroundings. If anyone crosses or upsets you, you may become vengeful and ensure the offending party pays. You have the ability to recover from any situation, given your awesome powers of regeneration. You are soft-spoken and quiet, yet strong and confident. As a fixed Ascendant, you are stubborn. You are emotional, yet skilled at hiding your inner vulnerability.

With Taurus on your Descendant, you are attracted to practical, traditional, and reliable partners. You want someone who is loyal, and is not afraid of commitment. You want someone who you will be with forever, as fixed signs denote permanence. Sensual pleasures are a large factor in your relationships.

Ascendant in Sagittarius:

You are loud, confident, and talkative. You appear enthusiastic and friendly to those around you. You are restless, and love to be active. People with their Ascendant in Sag are direct and honest, to the point of being tactless and rude. You are talkative, and love giving your opinion. You are very warm and outgoing, as well as passionate and energetic. You are naturally optimistic, which gains you many friends. You seem very “fun” to everyone, due to your natural charisma and charm. You love to travel, and get antsy if you stay in one place for too long. You are the “life of the party”, and have a great sense of humor. You are naturally athletic, but prefer group sports to working out at the gym. You love animals. You’re a natural teacher, and you have an interest in foreign cultures and religion. You are philosophical and spiritual. You are generous (almost to a fault).

With Gemini on the Descendant, you seek variety and intellectual stimulation in relationships. You attract partners who are curious and mentally alert. Gemini is symbolized by the “twins,” which indicates that you might have more than one marriage. You don’t settle down easily, due to your restless, freedom-loving nature.

Physically, Sag Ascendants are usually tall. You have a big, horsy smile with big teeth. You have a loud voice and an infectious laugh.

Ascendant in Capricorn:

You appear very serious and formal to others. You give off an aura of competence. You are responsible and reliable. You are a hard worker, and will sacrifice your desires in favor of success. You may choose friends who make you look good. Your childhood may have been restrictive, but regardless, you have a strong sense of tradition. You are very aware of how you “look” to others. You may feel insecure on the inside, even with a happy face on the outside. You appear conservative and reserved, but may become more cheerful and outgoing in your adulthood.

You dress for success. You look great in a business suit. You like appearing competent and successful. When you are younger, you might appear older than your age, and when you are older, you might appear younger than your age. Indeed, Capricorn Ascendants often have an ageless beauty. Think of how great your fellow Cap Ascendants, Sofia Loren and Sean Connery, look at their age!

With Cancer on the cusp of your 7th house, you tend to attract sensitive, needy, emotional partners. You partners are usually subjective and think with their hearts. The home life and tradition are key themes in your relationships.

Ascendant in Aquarius:

You come across as “different” and unique. You have your own sense of style, and tend not to follow the crowd. You appear detached, yet friendly and sociable. You make friends easily, and your social circle probably contains members from all walks of life. You see everyone as equals, and don’t usually give any one person special treatment. You have a strong need for freedom, and feel “trapped” when faced with routines or commitments. You are definitely a rebel, and your stubborn nature adds to your disdain of being told what to do. You are very logical, as well as independent, and are not impressed by status or wealth. You love playing devil’s advocate, and are a great debater. You can be quite unpredictable; in fact, you hate when people think you’re predictable!

With Leo on the Descendant, your partners tend to be dramatic, though happy and pleasant. Partners are usually confident and creative, as well as charismatic and protective. Your partners show you how to life your life to the fullest.

Ascendant in Pisces:

As a Pisces Ascendant, you appear gentle, sensitive, and adaptable. You give off an “artistic” vibe. Your mood and personality changes often, which allows you to adapt to changing circumstances and people. You are dreamy, charming, and mysterious. You tend to see the world through rose-tinted glasses, which can make objectivity difficult. You tend to see the best in people, which can set you up for deception and disappointment. You are extremely compassionate and emotional, and intensely dislike confrontation and conflict. You are very romantic and creative. You may have artistic talents, such as painting or the ability to play a musical instrument. You need to be careful of others taking advantage of you. You are very sensitive to negativity; it actually hurts you to be in negative situations. You tend towards loneliness, which can lead you into the arms of unsuitable partners.

With Virgo on the 7th house cusp, you seek a stable, reliable partner, who is realistic enough to bring you back down to earth. Partners are generally analytical and intelligent, but critical and nagging. You might attract people who want to help you, as Virgos are the great repairmen and women of the zodiac! They will encourage you to get off your ass and be of service to the world.

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Jupiter transits your Natal Mars

When Jupiter transits conjunct your natal Mars, your energy is at an all-time high! You feel confident, self-assured, and action-oriented at this time. Increased vitality makes it easier to get things done, and your actions are likely to bring positive results. You are likely to feel restless during this transit, so find positive outlets for your energy. On the downside, you may be prone to overdoing things by taking on too many activities. This, in turn, can lead to physical exhaustion! Either way, your desire for accomplishment and adventure can lead you to success! Your sexual energies are heightened at this time, so have fun.

 

 

Jupiter trine or sextile your natal Mars: During this transit, you exude confidence, self-assuredness, and directness. Your energy is high, and your ambitions are heightened. You are positive in your abilities to achieve your goals, and this can reap considerable rewards! Physical activity is favored at this time, due to an increased desire for competition and accomplishment. You are motivated, action-oriented, and driven, which can lead to success! Define what you want, and go for it!

 

 

Jupiter opposite or square your natal Mars: Similar to the conjunction, trine, and sextile, transiting Jupiter is square or opposite aspect to your natal Mars indicates increased enthusiasm, energy, and confidence. However, there may be an abundance of options, making you feel directionless. This is a time when you are “on the go”; numerous activities fill your life. As a result, you can end up exhausted! Also, your enthusiasm for accomplishing several activities at once can lead you to start, but not finish, many tasks. You stretch to your limits during this time, which can make your life spiral out of control if you are not careful. In addition, you may tend to “jump in” to activities without proper foresight. Your sexual energies are likely to be super-charged during this transit, so have fun!

 

 

If Mars rules, or is situated in your 1st house, you are likely to experience increased confidence and assertiveness. Hard transits can indicate an overbearing and aggressive attitude.

 

 

If Mars rules, or is situated in your 2nd house, you may experience financial success. Hard transits can indicate significant financial gains or losses. Be careful with reckless spending.

 

 

If Mars rules, or is situated in your 3rd house, your relationships with relatives may improved. In addition, your communication and thinking processes may be more forceful and aggressive.

 

 

If Mars rules, or is situated in your 4th house, your home life and relationship with your parents is improved. Hard transits can indicate conflict between family members.

 

 

If Mars rules, or is situated in your 5th house, your social and romantic life will improve during this time. You may meet someone new. The hard transits indicate an unstable romantic life, and partners who promise more than they can deliver. Beware of an inflated ego at this time.

 

 

If Mars rules, or is situated in your 6th house, you may become increasingly focused on your work and health. You may take on a new diet or exercise regimen. Health and work are positive at this time. Be careful to avoid physical exhaustion.

 

 

If Mars rules, or is situated in your 7th house, a new relationship may enter your life, or your current relationship will be strengthened. If this is a hard aspect, your partner may desire more freedom, or may become overbearing.

 

 

If Mars rules, or is situated in your 8th house, sexual opportunities may pop up! Beware of overspending. This transit can also indicate a sudden windfall.

 

 

If Mars rules, or is situated in your 9th house, you may have the opportunity for travel or higher learning. If this is a hard aspect, you may experience a crisis of faith, or become part of an extreme religious group. Watch out for the tendency of appearing “holier than thou” to others.

 

 

If Mars rules, or is situated in your 10th house, changes to your career or social status are likely to improve. You may receive a promotion during this time. Hard aspects indicate a time where you promise too much to your superiors. Obstacles to success may manifest during this time.

 

 

If Mars rules, or is situated in your 11th house, you bring energy into your social circle. Your personal popularity may increase. Hard transits can indicate a chaotic social life.

 

 

If Mars rules, or is situated in your 12th house, you may experience an increased need for solitude. This is a great time to get in touch with your inner self, and what you really want from your life.

 

 

 

 

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Saturn transits the Houses

Saturn transits are notoriously tough. Saturn represents discipline, pessimism, restriction, and depression, and in transit, infuses your natal houses and planets with this energy. Read more to see how Saturn affects you as it transits your natal houses.

 

Saturn transits the 1st house:

 

As Saturn transits your house of Self, you become more serious and introspective. An increase in responsibility, maturity and realism are in store. You may choose to present yourself to the world in a more “mature” way, opting for clothes and hairstyles that are on the mature side. This transit can also indicate increased self-discipline, so it’s a great time to rid yourself of bad habits and overcome your inhibition. This is also an indicatin of weight-loss.

 

Saturn transits the 2nd house:

 

As Saturn transits your house of personal finances, you focus turns towards financial security. Your approach to money matters turns serious and responsible, so you might be more frugal than usual during this time. Often, this indicates a time of financial asceticism and strict budgeting, especially if you’ve been irresponsible with your finances in the past. The 2nd house also represents your personal values, so you might find yourself re-evaluating what is important to you.

 

Saturn transits the 3rd house:

 

As Saturn transits your house of communication, your mind turns towards more serious matters. This is a good time to buckle down on your studies, because your mind is so much more focused and disciplined during this time. Your style of communication may change during this time, as well, which could be difficult for your peers to understand, if they have come accustomed to your old ways. During this time, you are more likely to “watch what you say”. You might feel a strain in your relationships with neighbors and relatives.

 

Saturn transits your 4th house:

 

As Saturn transits your house of home life and family, domestic responsibilities take the forefront of your life. Obligations to your family might plague you during this time, so it’s time to step up and fulfill your familial duties. This is the time to resolve your childhood issues in order to clear the way for growth. Saturn also represents “restriction”, so this might be a time where you are separated from your family. This transit often occurs at the time a child leaves home.

 

Saturn transits your 5th house:

 

As Saturn transits your house of fun, romance, and children, your approach to these areas becomes more disciplined and responsible. You might see your romantic relationships as limiting, and increased responsible to your children might become burdensome. Any fear you’ve had of fun and romance will be confronted during this cycle, which will help you learn how to give and receive love more easily. You become more mature about romance, and take a serious approach to love affairs.

 

Saturn transits the 6th house:

 

When Saturn transits your house of work, health, and habits, you feel overburdened in these areas. This is a time of responsibility and hard work and increased anxiety (the 6th house rules the nerves). Health issues may pop up during this time, so take extra care. This is a great time to go on a diet or begin a new exercise regimen. You are more serious about your health during this time, so use this energy to your full advantage!

 

Saturn transits the 7th house:

 

When Saturn transits your house of one-on-one relationships, you take a more serious approach to relationships. This is often the time a person enters their first, committed, serious relationship. Relationships begun under this influence are generally heavy and serious, and the partner may be older. Break-ups often occur during this time (especially when Saturn conjuncts the Descendant), because Saturn forces you to take a good, hard look at your relationships to see what is working, and what is not. This transit can also indicate increased loneliness if you are not partnered up.

 

Saturn transits the 8th house:

 

When Saturn transit your house of sex, death, power, and joint resources, your energy turns inward. You may become fascinated by subjects like death and psychology. Unfortunately, I have observed this transit to wreak havoc on one’s sex life. Your approach to sex is more serious during this time. You don’t want to have “fun” sex, you want to have “real” sex. Unless your partner can offer you this, you’re likely to feel dissatisfied with your sexual experiences during this cycle.

 

Saturn transits the 9th house:

 

When Saturn transits your house, you develop a serious attitude towards higher education, travel, and philosophy. This is often the time you pursue higher education. Indeed, the 9th house is the last phase before entering the career phase of one’s life. You may take on a more serious, or skeptical, approach to your religion (if any) or belief system. You are attracted to metaphysics and philosophy at this time, and take on a more mature outlook on life. This cycle also favors long-distance travel, which will change your outlook on the world considerably.

 

Saturn transits the 10th house:

 

Saturn is “at home” in the 10th house. When Saturn transits your 10th house, career matters, reputation, and social status are at the forefront of your life. This period indicates an increase in responsibility and recognition in your career, especially if you haven’t “cut-corners” in the past to get where you are. Remember: Saturn always rewards hard work. Your professional success might be at the expense of your domestic situation at this time. In contrast, Saturn transiting your 10th house could also restrict your career opportunities, and the person may not find professional success once the transit is over.

 

Saturn transits the 11th house:

 

As Saturn transits your 11th house, your relationship with your friends might feel strained. This is a “cleaning out” phase when it comes to friendships; you are no longer satisfied with superficial relationships, so this could possibly be a time of good-byes. You strengthen your relationship with your “true” friends at this time. You may feel less sociable than usual, or feel self-conscious in group settings. Conversely, you might feel more responsible to your friends during this time. The 11th house also represents your long-term goals, so this period could be a time of culmination or restructuring of those goals.

 

Saturn transits the 12th house:

 

When Saturn transits your 12th house, you may feel lonely and isolated. This is a wonderful time to sever any ties to negative habits or people you’ve been holding onto. This is a great time to commit to your spiritual practices, such as meditation. This is the time to complete any unfinished business that has been plaguing you. You may become protective over your privacy during time.

 

 

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Saturn in Synastry

 

 

Saturn aspects in synastry are notoriously difficult to handle. Saturn represents depression, restriction, fear of rejection, distancing, as well as commitment. Saturn aspects are certainly binding, but come with many problems.

 

 

Sun-Saturn in Synastry

 

My first ex boyfriend and I had strong Saturn aspects in our synastry chart. It made total sense, given the fact that Saturn was transiting my 7th house at the time. More specifically, my Saturn was conjunct his Sun in Scorpio. My most recent ex had his Sun in Aquarius square my Saturn in Scorpio. Incidentally, he had Saturn transiting his 7th house when we were together.

 

Sun-Saturn aspects in synastry are apparently very common aspects to find in the synastry charts of married couples and long-term partners. Indeed, my relationships with those two lasted quite a few years, but it wasn’t without difficulty.

 

As the Saturn person, I felt both insecure and committed to each of them. Each one of them brought out many of my insecurities. Just by being themselves and expressing their individuality, my fears of rejection and getting hurt surfaced. In response, I criticized them and judged them harshly. I wanted to dominate them, control them, and stomp on their fun. I didn’t want them to “grow”, because I was too afraid they would grow apart from me.

 

Another reason I was so critical of these two guys was because I genuinely thought their ideas, feelings, and beliefs were incredibly stupid. Sounds harsh, I know, but some of their opinions and beliefs simply pissed me off. Instead of calmly voicing my own opinions, I insulted theirs. This, in turn, discouraged them greatly, but I felt I was doing them a favor. When I look back, I know I was a bit too harsh with them, but I felt (and STILL feel) they were childish and needed a good reality check.

 

The Sun-Saturn energy in synastry is much like the energy between a parent and child. In those two relationships, I felt that I was scolding my misbehaving children.

 

I was already into astrology when I met the Aquarius guy, so I knew this energy would manifest in our relationship somehow. I tried my best to keep my Saturnian energy in check, but when it came down to it, I simply couldn’t help but criticize him. Trust me- I tried.

 

Moon-Saturn aspects in Synastry

 

I recently came out of a relationship that had a Moon-Saturn opposition double-whammy. By “double-whammy”, I mean his Moon opposed my Saturn and his Saturn opposed my Moon. How does this aspect play out between two people, you may ask? Let me tell you.

 

The way it manifested in my relationship was through major emotional distancing. Him and I would do anything to avoid talking about our feelings. Even when problems arose which made either one of us feel angry, annoyed, jealous, or frustrated, we would not, and COULD not, voice our feelings to one another. I felt that if I told him how I felt, he would reject me, and he felt the same way. Even though I knew he had true feelings for me, self-doubt and fear of rejection would take over, and I’d end up keeping my feelings to myself. The same went for affection; affection did not flow easily between us due to deep-seated fears of rejection, which was ultimately frustrating for both parties. Also, neither of us ever felt we could express our playful, romantic sides around one another; I felt he would not approve of any kind of childishness from me, so I kept my mouth shut.

 

On the positive side, this relationship is particular was my longest. I think one of the things that made us last so long was the desire to find out what the other person felt. The emotional distancing both frustrated and intrigued me. I wanted to know what was in his heart, and he was dying to know how I felt. We both hung in there, hoping that one day, one of us would say how we truly felt about one another. After a while, we learned to express our feelings to one another, but only in small segments. We were both careful to never uncover “too much” about the way we felt.

 

Mercury-Saturn in Synastry

Hard aspects (conjunction, square, opposition) from one person’s Mercury to another person’s Saturn indicates a deep respect for each other’s thinking processes and communication. However, it may feel as though there is a communication barrier between the two of you. Saturn has a way of making Mercury feel as though she is not as intelligent or bright as the Saturn person. Saturn might “shut down” the ideas and opinions of the Mercury person through criticism and belittling, which can have a negative effect on the Mercury person’s self-confidence. Indeed, Mercury might feel self-conscious and awkward when expressing herself to the Saturn person. Saturn may tend to ignore, interrupt, or criticize Mercury when Mercury is speaking. Saturn might be silent often. Conversations are serious, and words do not flow easily.

In one of my previous relationships, my Mercury squared his Saturn. Mercury rules my 7th house, so communication is very important to me when it comes to relationships. I felt he belittled my opinions and ideas to the point of condescension. He was also much older than me, so he seemed even more patronizing. I definitely felt self-conscious when expressing my ideas to him; I was afraid he would think I was “stupid.”

The harmonious aspects (sextile, trine) between Mercury and Saturn are much easier to handle. The Saturn person gives structure to the Mercury person’s ideas. Saturn also gives practical advice to Mercury, and listens and guides the Mercury person. Mercury looks up to Saturn, and Saturn enjoys helping the Mercury person. Through Saturn, Mercury learns how to communicate in a more mature and level-headed way.

Venus-Saturn in Synastry

 

My longest relationship featured a tight Saturn square Venus aspect in synastry, wherein I was the Venus person.

 

This is often known as the “unrequited love” aspect. Why? Saturn represents blockages and restrictions, which can manifest in many forms. Sometimes, the blockages come from external forces. Saturn rules tradition, so couples with this synastry aspect sometimes face opposition from either person’s family. In my case, I was of a different cultural background than my partner. His parents were very traditional and strict, and would have never have approved of our union. Other external restrictions can include a mismatch in terms of age, social status, cultural background, or distance. Either way, there’s usually something in the way of you being together.

 

Another way in which this manifested was through a withdrawal of affection. I never felt quite comfortable cuddling him, telling him I loved him, or making baby talk with him due to my fear that he would reject that kind of behavior. I censored my feelings of affection for him, and he did the same. He acted somewhat “fatherly” towards me, and I didn’t want to risk his disapproval. Though he never explicitly told me he didn’t want me to go out and have fun with my friends, he would often try to interfere with my plans if he knew I was going out.

 

Mars-Saturn in Synastry

 

This is a very negative aspect to share with someone in synastry.

 

With this aspect, it seems that no matter what the Mars person does, the Saturn person is bothered. Nothing is ever “good enough” for Saturn. The Saturn person usually sees the Mars person as childish and irresponsible.  The Mars person’s energy is the sort that makes the Saturn person very uncomfortable. More specifically, the Mars person’s self-confidence and assertiveness brings out Saturn’s insecurities, and in response, the Saturn person attempts to restrict and limit the Mars person’s actions by telling Mars what to do. Saturn may resort to constantly tearing the Mars person down through criticism and psychological abuse.

 

It is common for Mars to feel Saturn is condescending and treats Mars like a child. Mars may become angry with this and lash out at the Saturn person. The cycle of criticism and conflict can soon become a vicious cycle. This aspect lends itself to verbally abusive relationships, and can even escalate into physical aggression.

 

Since Mars is the planet of sex and physical energy, this aspect can also manifest into sexual problems for the couple. Saturn may find the sex disappointed, and Mars may sense this, and lose their sexual confidence. This is an aspect often found in the synastry charts of sexless marriages.

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Powerful Pluto transits the Houses

 

 

Pluto represents death, sex, intimacy, shared resources, rebirth, and transformation. When Pluto transits a house, it intensifies the issues the house represents. Pluto dislikes superficiality, and tears down and rebuilds the aspect of our lives which interfere with our psychological growth. Pluto transits are long, as Pluto spends approximately 21 years in each sign!

 

Pluto transits the 1st House

 

This period marks a time of personal transformation, where everything from your physical appearance to your self-image changes. Indeed, you may go through a significant physical makeover. The way you once projected yourself to others is overhauled in favor of a new pattern of relating. You may feel the need to control everything around you, which can have negative effects on your relationships. This period is a time where you learn more about yourself, and you may choose to isolate yourself from others with the goal of examining your psychological self. As the planet of death, Pluto through the first house indicates that many things may “die” during this time, including relationships and fabrications you’ve projected onto others. During this time, you are revealing who you really are and reclaiming your inner power.

 

Pluto transits the 2nd house

 

When Pluto transits your house of material possessions, a complete overhaul of your financial picture is likely. During this time, your sources of income may change. You may become obsessed with gaining complete control over your financial situation or attaining financial security. Pluto symbolizes extremes, so you may experience an obsession with financial gain, or, on the other hand, a complete denial or material desires at this time. These changes will reflect your changing sense of values.

 

Pluto transits the 3rd house

 

When Pluto transits your house of communication, you think with a greater depth and concentration. Research and investigative studies are favored during this cycle, because you are better able to penetrate beneath the surface of things. Your communication style changes during this time, as well; you are no longer satisfied with superficial, light conversations, and instead prefer to delve into the underlying issues of the subject at hand.

 

Pluto transits the 4th house

 

When Pluto transits the house of domestic life and family, your relationship with your parents may transform. On one hand, this transit can symbolize the termination of one’s relationship with a parent, or even the death of a parent, but on the other hand, this transit can symbolize reconciliation with a parent. During this time, you may decide to move to a different location, or change the aesthetic look of your home. You may also choose to explore aspects of your familial past, including your heritage and genealogy.

 

Pluto transits the 5th house

 

When Pluto transits the house of children, romance, and creativity, these areas are likely to intensify. This period could indicate a time where you desire complete control over your children. If you do not have children, this transit could solidify your decision to have, or not have children. Your love affairs are likely to intensify during this time, and the relationships you form during this cycle likely have a feeling of fatedness. Indeed, the relationships you have at this time are likely to be the most intense love experiences of your life!

 

Pluto transits the 6th house

 

When Pluto transits the house of work, you may become obsessive about getting a job done. This can lead to overworking to the point of exhaustion, as you are taking your duties to the extreme. On the other hand, a career move can develop at this time. The 6th house also represents health, so you may experience an intense desire to transform your diet or eliminate bad habits. This transit often coincides with dramatic weight loss.

 

Pluto transits the 7th house

 

When Pluto crosses your Descendant, the “death” of a relationship or some of your attitudes towards relationships are likely. In fact, all of your one-on-one relationships, from marriage to business partnerships, are likely to undergo a transformation during this cycle. Existing partnerships intensify, and relationships that are standing on unstable foundations are likely to disintegrate. Powerful emotions related to loyalty and honesty are likely to arise from yourself or your partner.

 

Pluto transits the 8th house

 

Pluto is at “home” in the 8th house. During this time, your focus may turn to issues surrounding death, sex, intimacy, and shared resources. In addition, you may become interested in subjects such as psychology, spirituality, and other subjects which deal with the hidden side of life. A death of someone close to you may reveal secrets, which alter your sense of well-being. Sexually, your desires intensify, and you may be drawn toward sexual taboos.

 

Pluto transits the 9th house

 

When Pluto transits your ninth house of travel, higher learning, and beliefs, your worldview is likely to undergo a significant transformation. Your focus will turn to subjects like philosophy and religion. Be careful to not get involved in cults or extreme religious groups. Outdated religious beliefs you previously held on to will be transformed due to a crisis of faith. You may take a long-term journey which will serve to transform your perspective on the world.

 

Pluto transits the 10th house

 

During this cycle, your desire to achieve power and recognition through your career is intensified. This transit can bring great success, due to a renewed sense of ambition and a desire to dominate others. Since Pluto represents extremes, you might experience massive failure in regards to your career or reputation. You could become ruthless in your quest for success, but the effects can be devastating if you take shortcuts or are going in the wrong direction.

 

Pluto transits the 11th house

 

When Pluto transits the 11th house, your friendships may change. You seek emotionally, intellectually, and spiritually intense friends, who will help develop your inner self.  Superficial friendships are likely to end at this time. You may join groups or clubs committed to humanitarian causes. This cycle can also indicate a transformation of your long-term goals.

 

Pluto transits the 12th house

 

When Pluto transits your 12th house, deeply buried aspects of yourself surface and demand your attention. This transit may bring out childhood events that have been affecting you until now. Many individuals engage in psychotherapy or psychiatric help during this transit. The deepening of your self-knowledge and inner attitudes will occur at this time. In addition, your desire for privacy and seclusion may intensify.

 

 

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Moon-Moon Aspects in Synastry

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If your Moon is conjunct your partner’s Moon, you have a great understanding of what makes the other tick. You are naturally empathetic and supportive of one another, due to the fact that you go through moods simultaneously. This aspect also indicates that the two of you bring out emotional excesses in one another, which can be draining over time.

If your Moon is square your partner’s Moon, it is difficult for you to understand each other’s moods and feelings. This is because your moods are out of sync; when one person feels up, the other feels down, and vice-versa. This aspect also indicates dissimilar family backgrounds and upbringings.

In the case of the opposition between two people’s Moons, there may be a tendency to mirror each other’s moods. This, in turn, can bring out strong emotions in one another. You tend to approach emotional issues from opposite directions, so you can learn a lot from one another. Your partner is a perfect “balance” for you.

The trine and sextile aspects between Moons are much easier to handle. In this case, your family backgrounds and upbringings are not conflictual. You are naturally empathetic and supportive of one another, without the damaging emotional excesses indicated by the hard aspects. You easily communicate your feelings to one another.

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Moon-Uranus Aspects in Synastry

 

 

In Astrology, the Moon represents our emotions, while Uranus represents instability, independence, and originality.

 

When your Moon makes a hard aspect (conjunction, square, opposition) to another person’s Uranus, the relationship is likely to be unstable and subject to sudden, unpredictable changes. As the Moon, person, you find the Uranus person highly exciting and electrifying at first. You were probably attracted to each other suddenly, and may have blurted out your feelings to one another immediately. However, over time, the Uranus person may begin to withdraw affection. Why is this?

 

 

Well, the Moon person has a way of making the Uranus person feel “trapped”. The Uranus person resents any hint of emotional dependency from the Moon person, which can to an on-off energy between the couple. When the Moon person begins to show dependency, the Uranus person withdraws, but may return after he has had enough distance. The Uranus person’s behavior may make the Moon person nervous and put her on edge. As such, the Uranus person is likely to see the Moon person as immature and overly-sensitive, while the Moon person is likely to see the Uranus person as unstable and unreliable.

 

 

The trine and sextile aspects between one person’s Moon and another person’s Uranus are easier to handle. This aspect indicates sexual attraction, as well as excitement and fun. You allow each other freedom in emotional expression, and encourage each others’ independence. You feel emotionally liberated by one another. This aspect keeps things from getting dull and boring, which goes a long way in a long-term relationship.

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Moon-Neptune in Synastry

 

 

When one person’s Moon contacts another person’s Neptune in synastry, a strong compassionate, sensitive, emotional connection is indicated. The Moon person is sensitive to the Neptune person’s dreams and idealizations, while the Neptune person provides unconditional love and understanding to the Moon person. Indeed, this aspect indicates a strong spiritual and emotional bond. You feel like you can read each other’s minds, and can communicate without even speaking a word to each other.

 

The hard aspects (conjunction, square, opposition), however, can indicate some difficulty. In this case, there is a tendency to misunderstand or confuse each other emotionally. The Moon person may tend to be emotionally dependent on the Neptune person, for the Moon person feels the Neptune person is his or her ideal mate.

 

The threat of emotional deceit is high when this aspect shows up in synastry. The Moon person may not see the Neptune person clearly; the Moon person may see the Neptune person for the emotionally wonderful, supportive person he thinks the Neptune person is. In order to keep the Moon person’s ideals alive or to gain emotional support or compassion, the Neptune person may “play along” by lying, playing the victim, or pretending to be someone he is not. Even if the Moon person suspects the Neptune person of deceit, they will make excuses for the Neptune person and pretend as though nothing is wrong.

 

Hard aspects also indicate a great amount of possessiveness and clinginess on the part of the Moon person. Both the Moon and Neptune are highly sensitive planets, which makes this relationship excessively emotional and co-dependent. This is especially damaging if Neptune becomes elusive and distant, as it will greatly upset the Moon person. While this aspect indicates a great amount of compassion and unconditional caring, it can also lead to hurt and disappointment due to lofty ideals of what each person thinks the other person is.

 

The harmonious aspects (trine, sextile) between the Moon and Neptune in syanstry are wonderful additions to any romantic relationship. This aspect indicates intuitive understanding and sympathy of one another. You are attuned to each other’s feelings and moods, and show support and compassion for one another. There is likely an emotional or psychic link which enables you to sense each other’s thoughts and feelings without having to verbalize them into words.

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Moon-Ascendant Aspects in Synastry

 

 

The Ascendant represents our self-image, our physical appearance, and the way we project ourselves to the world. The Moon represents our emotions, home, and family. When your Moon makes and aspect to your partner’s Ascendant, or vice-versa, you will be sensitive to each other’s feelings.

 

In the case of a conjunction between one person’s Moon and another person’s Ascendant, a strong emotional connection is indicated. In this case, the way the Ascendant person projects him or herself has a strong emotional impact on the Moon person. The Moon person provides security to the Ascendant person. As a result, expressing your feelings to one another comes naturally to you both in each other’s presence. You will easily reveal information to one another, no matter how personal the information is! The Moon person is likely to feel dependent on the Ascendant to satisfy her emotional needs. On the downside, this aspect can produce excess emotions, due to the ease in which you express yourselves to one another.

 

 

In one of my previous relationships, my ex’s Moon was conjunct my Ascendant. Like the description above suggests, he revealed an incredible amount of personal information to me, almost immediately! He told me he had never felt so comfortable with expressing his emotions to anyone. In fact, he tended to reveal a bit too much; he told me things I didn’t even want or need to know! He was completely dependent on me for emotional support, which I personally found a bit draining. In addition, his physical attraction to me was through the roof. This is because a man’s Moon (along with his Venus) is the prime indicator of what he is looking for in a mate. As such, my physical appearance and self-image were ideal to him. Indeed, he strongly felt I was the one he would marry, but unfortunately, I didn’t feel the same way.

 

 

The trine and sextile aspects between one person’s Moon and another’s Ascendant indicate a similar energy as the conjunction, but without the threat of emotional excesses. In this case, you find it easy to express your emotions to one another. This aspect favors affection, warmth and kindness, as well as mutual support. You are sensitive to one another’s moods, and know how to reassure each other. There is a strong feeling of acceptance and feeling loved by one another.

 

 

The square aspect between the Moon and Ascendant in synastry can pose some problems for a couple. In this case, you are overly sensitive to one another’s moods, which can lead to disappointments and hurt feelings. The Moon person is likely to display excess emotions to the Ascendant person, which can put the Ascendant person on edge. As emotional outbursts continue, the Ascendant person may feel they are walking on eggshells around the Moon person in order to avoid further emotional chaos. There is a feeling of being misunderstood and unwanted on the part of the Moon person. This aspect can also indicate differences in families or upbringing, which can cause further problems for the couple.

 

 

The opposition between the Moon and Ascendant are easier to handle than the square. In fact, this is a common aspect to find in the synastry charts of married couples. In this case, one person’s Moon is conjunct the other person’s Descendant, which indicates the Moon person expresses her emotions in a way that is ideal to the Descendant person. Family and domestic issues are important between the two of you. This aspect indicates a keen awareness of each other’s feelings, which can lead to emotional outbursts and hurt feelings. However, the Moon person is very supportive of the Ascendant person, while the Ascendant person sees the Moon person as nurturing and caring. In fact, the Ascendant person may become dependent on the Moon person for emotional support, and vice-versa.